What We Have Loved, Others Will Love

“What we have loved others will love and we will teach them how.” -William Wordsworth- As a public school teacher, the words above became somewhat of a mantra. I hung them up as a reminder about what I wanted the students in my classroom to experience. They were words that also caused me to pause and

Do You Love Your Spouse Or Do You Love Yourself?

I Love Me Written inside a Heart Drawn in SandA few years ago Donald Miller got engaged to a woman named Paige. I don’t know either of them personally I assume that by this point they are enjoying marriage together. Donald Miller’s name may or may not be familiar to you. He’s written several books, including Blue Like Jazz, and is a popular conference speaker and blogger. I confess that I have never read his books although I do know many people who seem to benefit from them.

I came across one of his posts (“What are You Looking for in a Spouse? Why not Create a List?”) in which he gives a list that his fiancee had made that described what she was looking for in a husband. According to Miller, she made the list to help her weed out people who didn’t fit the criteria that she deemed important. I would agree that putting thought into the kind of person you want to marry is a smart idea. Otherwise you might get caught up in the moment and forget your convictions on what makes a good husband or wife.

But I have to admit that as I was glancing through the list of what she wanted in a husband, I couldn’t help but thinking of Paul Tripp’s book on marriage What Did You Expect? Here’s her list as it appeared on Miller’s blog:

Barcelona: Derek and Ashley Jenkins

Missionary Meet & Greet: Sunday, Feb 3rd:   –Between Services in the Lobby Info Session with Q&A: Sunday, Feb 10th: —During 2nd Service: Room: 319 Bringing LIGHT into DARKNESS: Give Now The Jenkins have been involved with The Crossing since the early days meeting at Rock Bridge High School. They have been missions partners for

Learning to Love Better

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, which means that love is in the air.

Or is it?

I ask the question because I’m convinced that love is one of the more widely defined–and misunderstood–concepts in our culture. And I’m far from the first person to point out that this time of year doesn’t always lend itself to the clearest thinking on the subject.

So when you get right down to it, what does it mean to love someone in God’s eyes?

Do We Still Need the Good News?

Every once in a while a cultural pundit will suggest that our culture is progressing to a point where religion will be unnecessary and/or irrelevant. The thinking behind such an idea seems to be that mankind will gradually be able to address its major problems through its own, seemingly ever-expanding resources. In other words, one

A (Very Short) Ancient Prayer for Christmas Day

English speakers share a rich past of devotional writings. Take a moment to meditate on the following prayer by Thomas Cranmer written in 1549 for Christmas day. Though our lives and languages change, our hope does not. On Christmas Christ put on our human nature; ever since Christmas we’ve hoped to put on his divine nature,

My Favorite Reads In 2018

I love books. In my world books > movies, books > tv shows, books > hunting, books > building stuff, books > most things except sports. (In my world Books = Sports.) Don’t misunderstand. I’m not saying that reading is more spiritual than other things or necessarily a better way to spend your time. I’m

Preparing Your Preschooler for Christmas: Week Three

Children learn, grow and are shaped more in the first five years of life than any other time! What a wonderful opportunity we have as parents to hide the amazing, life-changing Christmas story in their little hearts this time of year. Although, I’ve listed ideas for teaching the story of The Wise Men below, feel

Preparing Your Preschooler for Christmas: Week Two

Nathan began a series last week that explains what we are planning to do with our young kids to prepare them for Christmas. We had so much fun at breakfast playing with our “nativity set” (i.e. a mish-mosh of Little People sets) and acting out the journey to Bethlehem (see picture of our 2-year-old at

Preparing Your Preschooler for Christmas

Want a few ideas to help prepare your preschool age child for Christmas? Sure you do, and I’ll give you a few thoughts as to why. Most of us realize that we live in a time and place in which it can be extremely difficult to keep the proper perspective on the significance of Christmas.